When someone makes you feel miserable, treating you badly. To the point you are sad, hurting and crying. It is time to move on. Do not even accept this. You will learn to get into a pattern to get treated as such. And this is unhealthy. So next time you are saying to yourself this […] by madeleine
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madeleine When someone makes you feel miserable, treating you badly. To the point you are sad, hurting and crying. It is time to move on. Do not even accept this. You will learn to get into a pattern to get treated as such. And this is unhealthy. So next time you are saying to yourself this […]
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MANY OF MY POST ARE TO ENCOURAGE THE PEOPLE WHO ARE GOING THROUGH HARD TIMES. TO LET THOSE PEOPLE WHO ARE BROKEN HEARTED THAT THERE IS HOPE. HOPE IN FINDING SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE YOU. HOPE IN BEING HAPPY ONCE AGAIN. HOPE THAT THE RIGHT PERSON IS OUT THERE SOMEWHERE LOOKING FOR YOU. SO EVERYONE WHO IS HURTING. WHO ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS MAKING THEM MISERABLE, UNHAPPY, UNLOVED. KNOW THAT IF YOU LET GO OF THIS TOXIC UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP, IT LEAVES YOU OPEN TO FINDING SOMEONE THAT WILL MA… by madeleine
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madeleine MANY OF MY POST ARE TO ENCOURAGE THE PEOPLE WHO ARE GOING THROUGH HARD TIMES. TO LET THOSE PEOPLE WHO ARE BROKEN HEARTED THAT THERE IS HOPE. HOPE IN FINDING SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE YOU. HOPE IN BEING HAPPY ONCE AGAIN. HOPE THAT THE RIGHT PERSON IS OUT THERE SOMEWHERE LOOKING FOR YOU. SO EVERYONE WHO IS HURTING. WHO ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS MAKING THEM MISERABLE, UNHAPPY, UNLOVED. KNOW THAT IF YOU LET GO OF THIS TOXIC UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP, IT LEAVES YOU OPEN TO FINDING SOMEONE THAT WILL MA…
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Yeah think about this next time you decide to treat someone badly and think its cute  #"epic" #itsnotcute #dontlike/pinifitappliestoyou by evilmokey83
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evilmokey83 Yeah think about this next time you decide to treat someone badly and think its cute #"epic" #itsnotcute #dontlike/pinifitappliestoyou
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"Being strong means refusing to tolerate people & things that wound your soul. It means practicing self-care when you’re hurting... treating yourself with compassion and kindness, even when you feel like you don’t deserve any... doing what makes you happy & being with people who make you feel good... asking for help when the weight of the world has become too much... and giving yourself permission to get your needs met by setting boundaries and using your voice..." ~Daniell Koepke by katharine
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katharine "Being strong means refusing to tolerate people & things that wound your soul. It means practicing self-care when you’re hurting... treating yourself with compassion and kindness, even when you feel like you don’t deserve any... doing what makes you happy & being with people who make you feel good... asking for help when the weight of the world has become too much... and giving yourself permission to get your needs met by setting boundaries and using your voice..." ~Daniell Koepke
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What a phenomenal friend. This really, really is what you should be saying to your friends. Not "just get over him", "he isn't worth it", "You're better off." NO. It freaking sucks. Let her cry. She can cry. Her heart hurts. Crying is better than faking being okay. Healing takes time, patience and someone to listen to you. by Elise14
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Elise14 What a phenomenal friend. This really, really is what you should be saying to your friends. Not "just get over him", "he isn't worth it", "You're better off." NO. It freaking sucks. Let her cry. She can cry. Her heart hurts. Crying is better than faking being okay. Healing takes time, patience and someone to listen to you.
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The funny thing is, nobody really ever knows how much anybody is hurting. We could be standing next to someone who is completely broken, and we wouldn't even know. <---This is how I feel. No one truly knows how broken I am. by rosalinda
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rosalinda The funny thing is, nobody really ever knows how much anybody is hurting. We could be standing next to someone who is completely broken, and we wouldn't even know. <---This is how I feel. No one truly knows how broken I am.
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The past few days have been extremely overwhelming for me. As a budding entrepreneur it seems I have a never ending to-do list. I have found recently that my OWN self care has been slipping. And that makes me feel guilty and out of integrity. Because I teach self care. I preach the benefits of it. I need to remind myself from time to time to listen to my own advice. . Those of us who are super sensitive empaths tend to be very outward focused. We are always scanning our environment feeling into peoples moods and energies. We are also natural born people pleasers. We LOVE to help other. Which is a beautiful thing. But it can become harmful to us when we feel guilty saying no. We feel if we say no to someone or an event or project that we are letting someone down disappointing them or worse- making them angry. We often feel that their reaction is our responsibility. And so we put ourselves last time and time again. We say yes over and over until we are completely drained exhausted and resentful. . But no is NOT A BAD WORD. No is a self-loving self-respecting responsible mature and often times kind word. We have to start asking ourselves why we always fall to the end of the line. Why we are so worried about disappointing others- but what about disappointing ourselves? I often ask my clients who are struggling to say no what would you say to a friend in this situation. Because the answer is almost always that the friend should stand up for and care for her energetic needs. So then why is it that YOU do not deserve the same is my next question. . You deserve to say no. You deserve to stand up and to take care of you. You are important and needed in this world. But if you dont give yourself the love you so freely give to others you will be stuck in a cycle of overwhelm turmoil and exhaustion. . Join me on January 26th for a potent conversation on how to care for yourself as a sensitive soul in this world. This powerful workshop is FREE and will ignite you on your path to re-connecting to the beautiful truth of who you are and to working on setting boundaries and practicing the magical word no. . SIGN UP LINK IN PROFILE by Nena Flores
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Nena Flores The past few days have been extremely overwhelming for me. As a budding entrepreneur it seems I have a never ending to-do list. I have found recently that my OWN self care has been slipping. And that makes me feel guilty and out of integrity. Because I teach self care. I preach the benefits of it. I need to remind myself from time to time to listen to my own advice. . Those of us who are super sensitive empaths tend to be very outward focused. We are always scanning our environment feeling into peoples moods and energies. We are also natural born people pleasers. We LOVE to help other. Which is a beautiful thing. But it can become harmful to us when we feel guilty saying no. We feel if we say no to someone or an event or project that we are letting someone down disappointing them or worse- making them angry. We often feel that their reaction is our responsibility. And so we put ourselves last time and time again. We say yes over and over until we are completely drained exhausted and resentful. . But no is NOT A BAD WORD. No is a self-loving self-respecting responsible mature and often times kind word. We have to start asking ourselves why we always fall to the end of the line. Why we are so worried about disappointing others- but what about disappointing ourselves? I often ask my clients who are struggling to say no what would you say to a friend in this situation. Because the answer is almost always that the friend should stand up for and care for her energetic needs. So then why is it that YOU do not deserve the same is my next question. . You deserve to say no. You deserve to stand up and to take care of you. You are important and needed in this world. But if you dont give yourself the love you so freely give to others you will be stuck in a cycle of overwhelm turmoil and exhaustion. . Join me on January 26th for a potent conversation on how to care for yourself as a sensitive soul in this world. This powerful workshop is FREE and will ignite you on your path to re-connecting to the beautiful truth of who you are and to working on setting boundaries and practicing the magical word no. . SIGN UP LINK IN PROFILE
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This quote from Gandhi is important to me because it has given me a saying to live by.  Before I read this I thought life was just random and I was useless to my fellow man.  In reality there is a cosmic force that directs us all, every day we touch other people in the simplest ways.  A smile could stop someone from hurting them self or others, a warning can stop an accident, even just a look can make someone feel important. by Raelynn8
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Raelynn8 This quote from Gandhi is important to me because it has given me a saying to live by. Before I read this I thought life was just random and I was useless to my fellow man. In reality there is a cosmic force that directs us all, every day we touch other people in the simplest ways. A smile could stop someone from hurting them self or others, a warning can stop an accident, even just a look can make someone feel important.
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Positive Quote: It is time to let go of people and things which are hurting you, even if it hurts you to let go. www.HealthyPlace.com by sharron
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sharron Positive Quote: It is time to let go of people and things which are hurting you, even if it hurts you to let go. www.HealthyPlace.com
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hahhahha next time I breakup with someone this is what I'm saying by Maiden11976
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Maiden11976 hahhahha next time I breakup with someone this is what I'm saying
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Don't let someone who is mean and ugly spirited get the satisfaction of watching you suffer day after day.  You aren't stopping them.  You're stopping yourself.  It's time to get up, move on, and SHINE. by dorothea
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dorothea Don't let someone who is mean and ugly spirited get the satisfaction of watching you suffer day after day. You aren't stopping them. You're stopping yourself. It's time to get up, move on, and SHINE.
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Lessons to remember: If someone can fall asleep knowing you're crying, knowing you're hurting or didn't get home safe, they don't care for you. by loretta
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loretta Lessons to remember: If someone can fall asleep knowing you're crying, knowing you're hurting or didn't get home safe, they don't care for you.
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Didn't need to read this - we all know (even if many won't admit it) that he's a miserable excuse for a human being --- our terrorist in the White House. This is a sad time in our country's history.... by nelda
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nelda Didn't need to read this - we all know (even if many won't admit it) that he's a miserable excuse for a human being --- our terrorist in the White House. This is a sad time in our country's history....
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THIS IS WORTH KEEPING AND READING FREQUENTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Written by a 90 Year Old..... This is something we should all read at least once a week!!!!! Make sure you read to the end!!!!!! Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio . "To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more: 1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. 4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch. 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it. 9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 12. It's OK to let your children see you cry. 13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks. 16. Take a deep breath It calms the mind. 17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. 18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. 19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 22. Over prepare, then go with the flow. 23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 24. The most important sex organ is the brain. 25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you. 26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words :'In five years, will this matter?' 27. Always choose life.. 28. Forgive everyone everything. 29. What other people think of you is none of your business. 30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time. 31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 33. Believe in miracles. 34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. 35. Don't audit life.. Show up and make the most of it now. 36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. 37. Your children get only one childhood. 38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. 39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. 42. The best is yet to come... 43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 44. Yield. 45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift." by eluthrea
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eluthrea THIS IS WORTH KEEPING AND READING FREQUENTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Written by a 90 Year Old..... This is something we should all read at least once a week!!!!! Make sure you read to the end!!!!!! Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio . "To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more: 1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. 4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch. 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it. 9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 12. It's OK to let your children see you cry. 13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks. 16. Take a deep breath It calms the mind. 17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. 18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. 19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 22. Over prepare, then go with the flow. 23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 24. The most important sex organ is the brain. 25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you. 26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words :'In five years, will this matter?' 27. Always choose life.. 28. Forgive everyone everything. 29. What other people think of you is none of your business. 30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time. 31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 33. Believe in miracles. 34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. 35. Don't audit life.. Show up and make the most of it now. 36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. 37. Your children get only one childhood. 38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. 39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. 42. The best is yet to come... 43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 44. Yield. 45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."
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You know your life Is sad and pathetic When your idea of Flirting has become Saying hi to someone. by proteamundi
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proteamundi You know your life Is sad and pathetic When your idea of Flirting has become Saying hi to someone.
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Are you looking to get new Clothing Apparel for yourself, or someone else that you know that is a fan? by Chubbcorp
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Chubbcorp Are you looking to get new Clothing Apparel for yourself, or someone else that you know that is a fan?
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Do you wake up and feel like you are chasing the day for the next 24 hours? This mom recently decided to get up earlier and establish a morning routine. She's even sharing 5 ways she's found to get the most out of that time. by madge
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madge Do you wake up and feel like you are chasing the day for the next 24 hours? This mom recently decided to get up earlier and establish a morning routine. She's even sharing 5 ways she's found to get the most out of that time.
Neat Things
Hating isn’t hurting me one bit. Youre hurting yourself. Just shows us what we already know, you miserable �� by alicealice
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alicealice Hating isn’t hurting me one bit. Youre hurting yourself. Just shows us what we already know, you miserable ��
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"What you seek is seeking you."~Rumi Accept where you are in your journey, and watch the world open up around you.  Don't compare yourself to others. Feel your power in your potential and in this day. You are love. You are light.  This week belongs to YOU by terra
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terra "What you seek is seeking you."~Rumi Accept where you are in your journey, and watch the world open up around you. Don't compare yourself to others. Feel your power in your potential and in this day. You are love. You are light. This week belongs to YOU
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Move on, he isn't going to change and no matter how many times you ask yourself... what if? I could do this.. I can live without the make up, the tampons, painting my toe nails, leaving the house.. the moment you start accepting the abuse.. he has you pinned under his thumb just like he wants.. he is miserable . DON'T allow this to happen to you like it happened to me. DON'T CHANGE WHO YOU ARE. by monimarin
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monimarin Move on, he isn't going to change and no matter how many times you ask yourself... what if? I could do this.. I can live without the make up, the tampons, painting my toe nails, leaving the house.. the moment you start accepting the abuse.. he has you pinned under his thumb just like he wants.. he is miserable . DON'T allow this to happen to you like it happened to me. DON'T CHANGE WHO YOU ARE.
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Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how you use it. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won't accept. by proteamundi
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proteamundi Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how you use it. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won't accept.
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THE QUESTION IS WILL THE CHANGE?  THE ANSWER WOULD PROBABLY BE NO. OF COURSE YOU CAN'T SAY EVERYONE FALLS UNDER THIS CATEGORY. BUT MANY DO. YOU NEED TO CHANGE THE SITUATION BY NOT HANGING AROUND TO BE HURT. THE PERSON KNOWS THEY ARE HURTING YOU BUT YOU ARE ALLOWING IT. BY STOPPING IT YOU ARE ALLOWING THE PERSON TO SEE YOUR WORTH. TO KNOW WHAT IT IS TO LIVE WITHOUT SOMEONE DOTING ON THEM. YEAH IT'S HARD AS HELL. BUT BEING TREATED LIKED SECOND BEST HURTS LIKE HELL. YOU CHOSE!  #change #hurt #me #… by Elise14
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Elise14 THE QUESTION IS WILL THE CHANGE? THE ANSWER WOULD PROBABLY BE NO. OF COURSE YOU CAN'T SAY EVERYONE FALLS UNDER THIS CATEGORY. BUT MANY DO. YOU NEED TO CHANGE THE SITUATION BY NOT HANGING AROUND TO BE HURT. THE PERSON KNOWS THEY ARE HURTING YOU BUT YOU ARE ALLOWING IT. BY STOPPING IT YOU ARE ALLOWING THE PERSON TO SEE YOUR WORTH. TO KNOW WHAT IT IS TO LIVE WITHOUT SOMEONE DOTING ON THEM. YEAH IT'S HARD AS HELL. BUT BEING TREATED LIKED SECOND BEST HURTS LIKE HELL. YOU CHOSE! #change #hurt #me #…
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If, and I mean if, they don't end up coming back after the break, we shouldn't be completely upset. Now y'all here me out, while yes it'll be very sad if this is "the end" but remind yourself of everything they've accomplished in such a short amount of time, it's incredible. If this is the end, I thank them for giving me awesome memories and i congratulate them on what they've done as a group. And as someone who loves music, I can't wait to see what comes next as a group or not -madison ford by carolyn
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carolyn If, and I mean if, they don't end up coming back after the break, we shouldn't be completely upset. Now y'all here me out, while yes it'll be very sad if this is "the end" but remind yourself of everything they've accomplished in such a short amount of time, it's incredible. If this is the end, I thank them for giving me awesome memories and i congratulate them on what they've done as a group. And as someone who loves music, I can't wait to see what comes next as a group or not -madison ford
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Tenth Avenue North lead singer, Mike Donehey, explains their new song "Worn" and offers hope to anyone who is having a hard time. As said on Air1.com, "When you are going through a difficult time,  when you are just depleted and feel you have no where to turn, this is a powerful song that may just help you get through!  Share with someone who may be going through it too!" by herminia
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herminia Tenth Avenue North lead singer, Mike Donehey, explains their new song "Worn" and offers hope to anyone who is having a hard time. As said on Air1.com, "When you are going through a difficult time, when you are just depleted and feel you have no where to turn, this is a powerful song that may just help you get through! Share with someone who may be going through it too!"
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The sad thing is, nobody knows how much anyone else is hurting. We could be standing next to somebody who is completely broken and we wouldn't even know it. by rosalinda
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rosalinda The sad thing is, nobody knows how much anyone else is hurting. We could be standing next to somebody who is completely broken and we wouldn't even know it.
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Downy Unstoppables in your vacuum bag! This is such an easy way to get a great smell every time you vacuum and it lasts a long time and is very effective, even on older vacuums! by irenepo
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irenepo Downy Unstoppables in your vacuum bag! This is such an easy way to get a great smell every time you vacuum and it lasts a long time and is very effective, even on older vacuums!
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"But you were fine yesterday." One of the things people have a hard time  understanding about this invisible illness is... One day you can have a great day, feel good and accomplish a lot. And the next day you can't even move. Pain, tremors, rapid hr and weakness stop you from accomplishing anything.  #spoonie by renee
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renee "But you were fine yesterday." One of the things people have a hard time understanding about this invisible illness is... One day you can have a great day, feel good and accomplish a lot. And the next day you can't even move. Pain, tremors, rapid hr and weakness stop you from accomplishing anything. #spoonie
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If someone bumps into you and you hear yourself say sorry, then this post is for you! If you want to discover simple ways to stop saying sorry when you've done nothing wrong, read on. by doreen.m
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doreen.m If someone bumps into you and you hear yourself say sorry, then this post is for you! If you want to discover simple ways to stop saying sorry when you've done nothing wrong, read on.
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Express your love to as many people as possible in words and in deeds, even in small yet significant ways. The soul of someone who has recently passed is making a smooth, peaceful and joyous transition. You are experiencing a spiritual renewal that is the result of a period of intense self-examination and challenges. This is a good time to stay at home and enjoy your domestic side. It is important to nurture yourself with loving care. by daisy
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daisy Express your love to as many people as possible in words and in deeds, even in small yet significant ways. The soul of someone who has recently passed is making a smooth, peaceful and joyous transition. You are experiencing a spiritual renewal that is the result of a period of intense self-examination and challenges. This is a good time to stay at home and enjoy your domestic side. It is important to nurture yourself with loving care.
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Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how you use it. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won't accept ☼ by marcia
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marcia Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how you use it. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won't accept ☼
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I loved this! Which are you settling for? OR are you taking steps to be sure you need less next time OR never get there? Now is the time. We never know when tomorrow might be too late. by proteamundi
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proteamundi I loved this! Which are you settling for? OR are you taking steps to be sure you need less next time OR never get there? Now is the time. We never know when tomorrow might be too late.
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