ksc This is sooo freaking AWESOME and I totallly agree with them! -->> "kobyzoshi: I just want to say that people who complain that River Song started out as an independent woman who challenged the Doctor and became a woman tragically defined by the Doctor forget that River Song’s story is told backwards. As a child she was brainwashed, manipulated, and conditioned to be something others wanted her to be. As a woman, she broke free of the conditioning, the expectations, the obsession, and became an independent woman with a life of her own apart from the TARDIS–someone who loves the Doctor but is not at all dependent on him. Isn't that something hopeful, beautiful, meaningful? You are not defined by the things that have happened to you. You are not defined by the things you have done. You are not defined by the way you used to think. You are not defined by what others want you to be. It doesn’t matter how you started. It doesn’t matter what path others forced you down. It doesn’t matter if you’re broken or screwed up or flawed. You can be strong. You can be brave. You can make your own way. You can be confident. You can be independent. You can live a life that’s wild and wonderful in spite of it all. River Song should inspire us all." ♥♥ by antonia
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antonia ksc This is sooo freaking AWESOME and I totallly agree with them! -->> "kobyzoshi: I just want to say that people who complain that River Song started out as an independent woman who challenged the Doctor and became a woman tragically defined by the Doctor forget that River Song’s story is told backwards. As a child she was brainwashed, manipulated, and conditioned to be something others wanted her to be. As a woman, she broke free of the conditioning, the expectations, the obsession, and became an independent woman with a life of her own apart from the TARDIS–someone who loves the Doctor but is not at all dependent on him. Isn't that something hopeful, beautiful, meaningful? You are not defined by the things that have happened to you. You are not defined by the things you have done. You are not defined by the way you used to think. You are not defined by what others want you to be. It doesn’t matter how you started. It doesn’t matter what path others forced you down. It doesn’t matter if you’re broken or screwed up or flawed. You can be strong. You can be brave. You can make your own way. You can be confident. You can be independent. You can live a life that’s wild and wonderful in spite of it all. River Song should inspire us all." ♥♥
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Doctor Who: River Song and the Twelfth Doctor?  Here’s an interesting bit of news for you Doctor Who fans out there. Actress Alex Kingston, who plays the mysterious River Song on the hit BBC sci-fi series, appeared on BBC Breakfast earlier this week and shared a few interesting bits about her  character’s relationship with the Doctor, hinting that her relationship  with the time traveller might not be restricted to just his tenth and  eleventh by antonia
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antonia Doctor Who: River Song and the Twelfth Doctor? Here’s an interesting bit of news for you Doctor Who fans out there. Actress Alex Kingston, who plays the mysterious River Song on the hit BBC sci-fi series, appeared on BBC Breakfast earlier this week and shared a few interesting bits about her character’s relationship with the Doctor, hinting that her relationship with the time traveller might not be restricted to just his tenth and eleventh
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In The Name of Allah, The Most Beneficent, The Most Merciful   38. O you who believe! What is the matter with you, that when you are asked to march forth in the Cause of Allah (i.e. Jihad) you cling heavily to the earth? Are you pleased with the life of this world rather than the Hereafter? But little is the enjoyment of the life of this world as compared with the Hereafter.  39. If you march not forth, He will punish you with a painful torment and will replace you by another people, and you cannot harm Him at all, and Allah is Able to do all things.  40. If you help him (Muhammad ) not (it does not matter), for Allah did indeed help him when the disbelievers drove him out, the second of two, when they (Muhammad  and Abu Bakr ) were in the cave, and he () said to his companion (Abu Bakr ): "Be not sad (or afraid), surely Allah is with us." Then Allah sent down His Sakinah (calmness, tranquillity, peace, etc.) upon him, and strengthened him with forces (angels) which you saw not, and made the word of those who disbelieved the lowermost, while it was the Word of Allah that became the uppermost, and Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise.  41. March forth, whether you are light (being healthy, young and wealthy) or heavy (being ill, old and poor), strive hard with your wealth and your lives in the Cause of Allah. This is better for you, if you but knew.  9:38-41 by mamie
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mamie In The Name of Allah, The Most Beneficent, The Most Merciful 38. O you who believe! What is the matter with you, that when you are asked to march forth in the Cause of Allah (i.e. Jihad) you cling heavily to the earth? Are you pleased with the life of this world rather than the Hereafter? But little is the enjoyment of the life of this world as compared with the Hereafter. 39. If you march not forth, He will punish you with a painful torment and will replace you by another people, and you cannot harm Him at all, and Allah is Able to do all things. 40. If you help him (Muhammad ) not (it does not matter), for Allah did indeed help him when the disbelievers drove him out, the second of two, when they (Muhammad and Abu Bakr ) were in the cave, and he () said to his companion (Abu Bakr ): "Be not sad (or afraid), surely Allah is with us." Then Allah sent down His Sakinah (calmness, tranquillity, peace, etc.) upon him, and strengthened him with forces (angels) which you saw not, and made the word of those who disbelieved the lowermost, while it was the Word of Allah that became the uppermost, and Allah is All-Mighty, All-Wise. 41. March forth, whether you are light (being healthy, young and wealthy) or heavy (being ill, old and poor), strive hard with your wealth and your lives in the Cause of Allah. This is better for you, if you but knew. 9:38-41
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zodiacsociety: Aries Traits: You are strong and will not let others walk over you. You have no patience with being patient. It can be hard to understand the weaknesses of others unless you have that same weakness too because you think that if you can do it, they can do it too. You need action to feel a sense of peace, as if through action is how you relieve yourself of negative energy in your life. by red_birdie
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red_birdie zodiacsociety: Aries Traits: You are strong and will not let others walk over you. You have no patience with being patient. It can be hard to understand the weaknesses of others unless you have that same weakness too because you think that if you can do it, they can do it too. You need action to feel a sense of peace, as if through action is how you relieve yourself of negative energy in your life.
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The Doctor: Do I know you? Woman / River: You most certainly do not. And now that you've met me, you'll do your very best to forget me. The Doctor: River! #DoctorWho Christmas Special "The Husbands of River Song" by gina
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gina The Doctor: Do I know you? Woman / River: You most certainly do not. And now that you've met me, you'll do your very best to forget me. The Doctor: River! #DoctorWho Christmas Special "The Husbands of River Song"
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DVD Duplication can be done by you as it doesn’t require the hardware used to replicates DVDs, but DVD replication is not simple as DVD dupl by gennifer perez
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gennifer perez DVD Duplication can be done by you as it doesn’t require the hardware used to replicates DVDs, but DVD replication is not simple as DVD dupl
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管他呢 guǎn tā ne!” stresses that you are truly NOT care. The tone is rather indifferent. You can also say:”我不在乎 wǒ bùzàihu。” This expression is softer. In some cases, it implies that you might actually care, but pretend to be “not care”. Another expression you can use to say “I don’t care.” is “无所谓 wúsuǒwèi。” This expression does not carry any emotion element. It simply means “To me it really doesn’t matter at all.” “I don’t care!” by jamie_1
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jamie_1 管他呢 guǎn tā ne!” stresses that you are truly NOT care. The tone is rather indifferent. You can also say:”我不在乎 wǒ bùzàihu。” This expression is softer. In some cases, it implies that you might actually care, but pretend to be “not care”. Another expression you can use to say “I don’t care.” is “无所谓 wúsuǒwèi。” This expression does not carry any emotion element. It simply means “To me it really doesn’t matter at all.” “I don’t care!”
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horse picture in a cloud | Dare to see the unseen. It doesn’t matter that others couldn’t see ... by cornelia
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cornelia horse picture in a cloud | Dare to see the unseen. It doesn’t matter that others couldn’t see ...
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The main rule of writing is that if you do it with enough assurance and confidence, you're allowed to do whatever you like. So write your story as it needs to be written. Write it honestly, and tell it as best you can. I'm not sure that there are any other rules. Not ones that matter. ~ Neil Gaiman by ada
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ada The main rule of writing is that if you do it with enough assurance and confidence, you're allowed to do whatever you like. So write your story as it needs to be written. Write it honestly, and tell it as best you can. I'm not sure that there are any other rules. Not ones that matter. ~ Neil Gaiman
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Chocolate Chip M&M Cookie Bars are something that I make almost weekly! Here’s why: The butter doesn’t need to be softened. The dough doesn’t need to chill. You make it all in one bowl with a spoon and not a mixer. Because they are cookie bars they are even faster to make than cookies. Spread … by aisha
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aisha Chocolate Chip M&M Cookie Bars are something that I make almost weekly! Here’s why: The butter doesn’t need to be softened. The dough doesn’t need to chill. You make it all in one bowl with a spoon and not a mixer. Because they are cookie bars they are even faster to make than cookies. Spread …
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The Doctor/River Song - Fix You (Doctor Who) by jeanie
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jeanie The Doctor/River Song - Fix You (Doctor Who)
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An old door finds new life as a coffee table. The rustic finish is perfect for a family room -- you can put your feet up, spill soda on it, not use your coaster – it doesn’t matter – it'll all add to the natural, rich patina. by Maca
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Maca An old door finds new life as a coffee table. The rustic finish is perfect for a family room -- you can put your feet up, spill soda on it, not use your coaster – it doesn’t matter – it'll all add to the natural, rich patina.
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Good Morning, Fam! Walking to your own drummer can be difficult. People tell you to be yourself, then they judge you for it. But that is why it's important for you not to rely on others for validation, but instead to be comfortable with who you are and where you are in your journey.    Are you living for others or for yourself? by Shayla Brown
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Shayla Brown Good Morning, Fam! Walking to your own drummer can be difficult. People tell you to be yourself, then they judge you for it. But that is why it's important for you not to rely on others for validation, but instead to be comfortable with who you are and where you are in your journey. Are you living for others or for yourself?
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If weight loss or body discontent has been an ongoing battle for you in your life, and you are over it and ready to get free, then you my friend have come to the right place! In the next 31 days I am not just going to talk at you about what to do, I am going to give you step-by-step resources and tools to DO something NEW! All you need to do is simply show up as you are, be exactly who you are, do the work that only you can do, and God WILL do the rest. by jami
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jami If weight loss or body discontent has been an ongoing battle for you in your life, and you are over it and ready to get free, then you my friend have come to the right place! In the next 31 days I am not just going to talk at you about what to do, I am going to give you step-by-step resources and tools to DO something NEW! All you need to do is simply show up as you are, be exactly who you are, do the work that only you can do, and God WILL do the rest.
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“You can’t be disrespectful to her and expect her to respect you in return...It doesn’t work that way. What you will get in return is a slow build up of animosity and resentment...you’ll turn the woman who used to daydream about spending time with you, into a woman who longs to get away from you. My thoughts…. regardless of the issue, never let it get to the point of disrespect. You can be mad without being disrespectful…you can disagree without being disrespectful. Once you cross that line and lose her respect, it’s hard to get it back.” -Mr. Amari Soul by maritza
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maritza “You can’t be disrespectful to her and expect her to respect you in return...It doesn’t work that way. What you will get in return is a slow build up of animosity and resentment...you’ll turn the woman who used to daydream about spending time with you, into a woman who longs to get away from you. My thoughts…. regardless of the issue, never let it get to the point of disrespect. You can be mad without being disrespectful…you can disagree without being disrespectful. Once you cross that line and lose her respect, it’s hard to get it back.” -Mr. Amari Soul
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Truth. The ones who can speak lies as eloquently as if they were the truth are the ones to watch. Trouble is sometimes we can't see that they're doing this until it's a little too late. Such is life, life is an experience :) If it's happened to you, don't be bitter. Don't stop trusting. Don't feel like you have to justify yourself if you're being wronged. It just doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things, and maybe.... Just maybe... They'll trip themselves up in front of the people who doubted you. Maybe... Love to all xxx by monimarin
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monimarin Truth. The ones who can speak lies as eloquently as if they were the truth are the ones to watch. Trouble is sometimes we can't see that they're doing this until it's a little too late. Such is life, life is an experience :) If it's happened to you, don't be bitter. Don't stop trusting. Don't feel like you have to justify yourself if you're being wronged. It just doesn't matter in the grand scheme of things, and maybe.... Just maybe... They'll trip themselves up in front of the people who doubted you. Maybe... Love to all xxx
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Thinspiration is when people are inspired to be thin. This picture is an example. When you want to be thin are you really doing it for yourself? This picture claims that it's for you but at the same time it says you're doing it to get attention from others. People only want to be thin because they want to be seen by others as "beautiful". Being yourself is what's beautiful not being skinny to please others. by debora
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debora Thinspiration is when people are inspired to be thin. This picture is an example. When you want to be thin are you really doing it for yourself? This picture claims that it's for you but at the same time it says you're doing it to get attention from others. People only want to be thin because they want to be seen by others as "beautiful". Being yourself is what's beautiful not being skinny to please others.
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Finding lack in others is not the path to liking what you see in yourself. If you are a person who has trained yourself to look for positive aspects, you will find them in yourself as well as in others. If you are a person who has trained yourself to look for negative aspects, you will find them in yourself as well as in others. Therefore, it is always accurate to say that no one who is critical of others really likes themselves. It defies Law. by amber
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amber Finding lack in others is not the path to liking what you see in yourself. If you are a person who has trained yourself to look for positive aspects, you will find them in yourself as well as in others. If you are a person who has trained yourself to look for negative aspects, you will find them in yourself as well as in others. Therefore, it is always accurate to say that no one who is critical of others really likes themselves. It defies Law.
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Imagine this. A woman in Poughkeepsie plucks your debut novel off the shelf. Okay, fine. It doesn’t have to be Poughkeepsie. It can be anywhere—Marietta, Springfield, Sedona—wherever. The town doesn’t matter because your debut novel flew off the shelves in every big and small town across America. Mostly because of one big thing. You pulled … by kathrine
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kathrine Imagine this. A woman in Poughkeepsie plucks your debut novel off the shelf. Okay, fine. It doesn’t have to be Poughkeepsie. It can be anywhere—Marietta, Springfield, Sedona—wherever. The town doesn’t matter because your debut novel flew off the shelves in every big and small town across America. Mostly because of one big thing. You pulled …
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Monday Mapping: Planning for 2nd Semester Curriculum mapping can be as simplified or as detailed as you want, but it can help you to know where you are headed, what you have to cover, and how you plan to do it all in the little time you have available. You can create your own, or use a template, but either way, cater it to what you need for your classroom and your students. Here are a few images/ideas to get you started: by anne
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anne Monday Mapping: Planning for 2nd Semester Curriculum mapping can be as simplified or as detailed as you want, but it can help you to know where you are headed, what you have to cover, and how you plan to do it all in the little time you have available. You can create your own, or use a template, but either way, cater it to what you need for your classroom and your students. Here are a few images/ideas to get you started:
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Influencing and persuading others is something that we all have to do at one time or another. It might be very simple things like getting your children to do their homework without a struggle or asking your partner to do the washing up, or it could me more complex situations like persuading a business colleague to support a proposal or a customer to make a purchase. Whatever the situation may be, we would all like to be more influential and persuasive, but how? Scientists that have studied the persuasion process for over 60 years have discovered that the more traditional approaches that we typically rely on to influence others such as informing or incentivising people to change, are in many cases, ineffective. It has been found in studies by social psychologists, behavioural economists and neuroscientists that people are much more likely to be influenced not by the request that you make, but rather small changes to how you might frame your proposal. Three highly respected authorities in the field of persuasion science, Dr Robert Cialdini, Noah Goldstein and Steve Martin, conducted a series of studies into the persuasion process and in particular how the smallest changes can make the biggest influence. Some of the results that they obtained during the research revealed truly staggering results. Some of these amazing examples are highlighted in this interesting and informative infographic by Virtual VIP. by vibrantyouthe4
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vibrantyouthe4 Influencing and persuading others is something that we all have to do at one time or another. It might be very simple things like getting your children to do their homework without a struggle or asking your partner to do the washing up, or it could me more complex situations like persuading a business colleague to support a proposal or a customer to make a purchase. Whatever the situation may be, we would all like to be more influential and persuasive, but how? Scientists that have studied the persuasion process for over 60 years have discovered that the more traditional approaches that we typically rely on to influence others such as informing or incentivising people to change, are in many cases, ineffective. It has been found in studies by social psychologists, behavioural economists and neuroscientists that people are much more likely to be influenced not by the request that you make, but rather small changes to how you might frame your proposal. Three highly respected authorities in the field of persuasion science, Dr Robert Cialdini, Noah Goldstein and Steve Martin, conducted a series of studies into the persuasion process and in particular how the smallest changes can make the biggest influence. Some of the results that they obtained during the research revealed truly staggering results. Some of these amazing examples are highlighted in this interesting and informative infographic by Virtual VIP.
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Date the guy who has his heart set on having God’s heart. Date a guy who’s captured by Christ. There’s nothing more beautiful than seeing that strong man that you’ve known melt in compassion and reverence in the presence of God. To see him fall to his knees, with tears in his eyes and hands held high, without a care to the world watching him. But you will notice, this guy’s got something. Date the guy who’s not afraid to show it. You’re lucky if you get him, for they’re not easy to find. They might say that they believe, just to be close to you. But if you find a guy who really loves God, hold on to him. The guy who loves Jesus will respect you. He’ll pursue you, pray for you, treasure you. He won’t pressure you or control you, but gently walk beside you and lead you. He will appreciate you as the gift and beauty you are, and remind you of it every day. The guy who loves Jesus will worship with you. He’ll pray for you, he’ll pray with you. He will lead you with strong hands, stand up when you can’t… but remind you that only God can satisfy. He’ll search you out like the Proverbs 31 Woman, and love you with agape like only he can. Date a guy who loves Jesus with everything he is. He’ll be good to you, he’ll treat you well, and when you spend your life with him, it will be beautiful. He’s been created just for you, and together you’ll find and follow your purpose. Date a guy who loves Jesus because you deserve it. and when you finally find him, don’t forget to thank God every single day he’s around. Or better yet, marry a guy who loves Jesus. by Lauren Thompson YMKQV
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Lauren Thompson YMKQV Date the guy who has his heart set on having God’s heart. Date a guy who’s captured by Christ. There’s nothing more beautiful than seeing that strong man that you’ve known melt in compassion and reverence in the presence of God. To see him fall to his knees, with tears in his eyes and hands held high, without a care to the world watching him. But you will notice, this guy’s got something. Date the guy who’s not afraid to show it. You’re lucky if you get him, for they’re not easy to find. They might say that they believe, just to be close to you. But if you find a guy who really loves God, hold on to him. The guy who loves Jesus will respect you. He’ll pursue you, pray for you, treasure you. He won’t pressure you or control you, but gently walk beside you and lead you. He will appreciate you as the gift and beauty you are, and remind you of it every day. The guy who loves Jesus will worship with you. He’ll pray for you, he’ll pray with you. He will lead you with strong hands, stand up when you can’t… but remind you that only God can satisfy. He’ll search you out like the Proverbs 31 Woman, and love you with agape like only he can. Date a guy who loves Jesus with everything he is. He’ll be good to you, he’ll treat you well, and when you spend your life with him, it will be beautiful. He’s been created just for you, and together you’ll find and follow your purpose. Date a guy who loves Jesus because you deserve it. and when you finally find him, don’t forget to thank God every single day he’s around. Or better yet, marry a guy who loves Jesus.
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Understanding your own journey is all that matters, not what others understand about it (or not as is usually the case). They aren't the ones who have lived it, survived it and needed to heal it. They are just spectators and the real important person is the one on the journey...you. by nikki
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nikki Understanding your own journey is all that matters, not what others understand about it (or not as is usually the case). They aren't the ones who have lived it, survived it and needed to heal it. They are just spectators and the real important person is the one on the journey...you.
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that's actually the sweetest thing- student debt loans can be debilitating to people who are struggling, and using one's fortune to help others is not only extraordinarily kind, but can benefit the world as a whole by maryanne
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maryanne that's actually the sweetest thing- student debt loans can be debilitating to people who are struggling, and using one's fortune to help others is not only extraordinarily kind, but can benefit the world as a whole
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Much as he wanted it to be, Christmas did not turn out to be Jack Skellington's forté. Still, with a bow tie that resembles a bat and a pet dog whose nose looks like a glowing Jack-o'-lantern, Jack remains king of Halloween. After all, who else do you know that can remove his own head and put it back on again none the worse for wear? Inspired by this remarkable trick, these cupcakes make a sweet, if nightmarish, Halloween treat. by batjas88
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batjas88 Much as he wanted it to be, Christmas did not turn out to be Jack Skellington's forté. Still, with a bow tie that resembles a bat and a pet dog whose nose looks like a glowing Jack-o'-lantern, Jack remains king of Halloween. After all, who else do you know that can remove his own head and put it back on again none the worse for wear? Inspired by this remarkable trick, these cupcakes make a sweet, if nightmarish, Halloween treat.
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Home Office Design-Almost everyone loves working at the comfort of their home. While some who choose to stay wearing their pajamas and stay in bed for the whole day, others are really eager to have at least a small space in their home where they may feel as if they are working in an office. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you are going to talk about some renovating or dedicating one whole room in your house since a small space will do. Your home office can be just situated in a small corner by mariam
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mariam Home Office Design-Almost everyone loves working at the comfort of their home. While some who choose to stay wearing their pajamas and stay in bed for the whole day, others are really eager to have at least a small space in their home where they may feel as if they are working in an office. This doesn’t necessarily mean that you are going to talk about some renovating or dedicating one whole room in your house since a small space will do. Your home office can be just situated in a small corner
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Kayla Autumn Ward I am a transgendered woman who is on her journey to become the woman she has always been. I’m wanting to make a post about people reblogging my posts. I don’t mind but if you are going to reblog it and add hashtags that are inappropriate like shemale, sissy, etc., don’t do so. These are all negative terms that I do not care to be associated with. If that bothers you, bye! by frutiss
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frutiss Kayla Autumn Ward I am a transgendered woman who is on her journey to become the woman she has always been. I’m wanting to make a post about people reblogging my posts. I don’t mind but if you are going to reblog it and add hashtags that are inappropriate like shemale, sissy, etc., don’t do so. These are all negative terms that I do not care to be associated with. If that bothers you, bye!
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I ask people who are "different", at what age they realized they were not like the others. It's a club you don't have to join. You are born to it and life's experiences reveal it to you everyday. You can view it as a blessing or a curse....your choice. by betsy
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betsy I ask people who are "different", at what age they realized they were not like the others. It's a club you don't have to join. You are born to it and life's experiences reveal it to you everyday. You can view it as a blessing or a curse....your choice.
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No matter where you are in life, celebrate it. It's either a product of your growth or a place that will help you grow. Every season serves a purpose; learn to appreciate wherever you are on your journey. - The truth is, we are all works in progress. As you strive toward your goals, remember that success is all about continued progress, not immediate perfection. You might not be exactly where you want to be yet but as long as you're moving forward, that's what's important. - Great things tak... by joanne
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joanne No matter where you are in life, celebrate it. It's either a product of your growth or a place that will help you grow. Every season serves a purpose; learn to appreciate wherever you are on your journey. - The truth is, we are all works in progress. As you strive toward your goals, remember that success is all about continued progress, not immediate perfection. You might not be exactly where you want to be yet but as long as you're moving forward, that's what's important. - Great things tak...
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Hoping to pick up some better habits when it comes to money? The below are all great ones to consider. And I get that not all of them is going to work for everyone, but I challenge you to consider doing as many as you can. It might not be as hard as you think! by marion
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marion Hoping to pick up some better habits when it comes to money? The below are all great ones to consider. And I get that not all of them is going to work for everyone, but I challenge you to consider doing as many as you can. It might not be as hard as you think!
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When a man is truly interested in you, there will be no need for you to do the pursuing. Men are born to pursue women. Yes, you can pursue a man if yo want to, but in most cases that's just an obvious sign that he's not into you. Its not natural for a man to sit back and let the woman do all the work. For a man who claims to like you to sit back and allow you to do all of the calling, texting, dating arrangements, talks about the future etc. Its pretty obvious where you stand in that man's life. by lorene
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lorene When a man is truly interested in you, there will be no need for you to do the pursuing. Men are born to pursue women. Yes, you can pursue a man if yo want to, but in most cases that's just an obvious sign that he's not into you. Its not natural for a man to sit back and let the woman do all the work. For a man who claims to like you to sit back and allow you to do all of the calling, texting, dating arrangements, talks about the future etc. Its pretty obvious where you stand in that man's life.
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