Relationship with a Narcissist in a Nutshell: You will go from being the perfect love of their life to nothing you do is ever good enough. You will give everything and they will take it all and give you less and less in return. You will end up depleted, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and probably financially, and then get blamed for it. by shirley
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shirley Relationship with a Narcissist in a Nutshell: You will go from being the perfect love of their life to nothing you do is ever good enough. You will give everything and they will take it all and give you less and less in return. You will end up depleted, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and probably financially, and then get blamed for it.
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Marriage doesn't mean you are trapped into a relationship to be abused physically, mentally, financially  and/or emotionally. Never accept violence in the name of "love." by proteamundi
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proteamundi Marriage doesn't mean you are trapped into a relationship to be abused physically, mentally, financially and/or emotionally. Never accept violence in the name of "love."
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Getting unstuck in your life means taking loving action in your own behalf — physically, emotionally, spiritually, organizationally, relationally and financially. When being loving to yourself becomes more important to you than gathering information, judging yourself, resisting control, fixing yourself, blaming others, not trusting yourself, or allowing your fears of rejection or failure to stop you — then you will get unstuck. by shirley
shirley
shirley Getting unstuck in your life means taking loving action in your own behalf — physically, emotionally, spiritually, organizationally, relationally and financially. When being loving to yourself becomes more important to you than gathering information, judging yourself, resisting control, fixing yourself, blaming others, not trusting yourself, or allowing your fears of rejection or failure to stop you — then you will get unstuck.
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You might be a narcissist if... you take no responsibility for your destructive behaviors that hurt your children and then blame their mom for everything. by bertha
bertha
bertha You might be a narcissist if... you take no responsibility for your destructive behaviors that hurt your children and then blame their mom for everything.
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They charm & lie, lie, lie, use, drain you dry emotionally & financially. All the while projecting all their negative qualities onto you sitting in judgement. As narcissist judge AWG by shirley
shirley
shirley They charm & lie, lie, lie, use, drain you dry emotionally & financially. All the while projecting all their negative qualities onto you sitting in judgement. As narcissist judge AWG
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Real men don't abuse even emotionally, mentally or silently.....this is left to empty souled narcissists... How long does it take for the narcissist to reveal himself, truly? Often right after the I DO's and the exchanging of the rings....Especially if he's in a rush so you won't find him out before he catches you completely in his web...of illusion...another good book... by dora
dora
dora Real men don't abuse even emotionally, mentally or silently.....this is left to empty souled narcissists... How long does it take for the narcissist to reveal himself, truly? Often right after the I DO's and the exchanging of the rings....Especially if he's in a rush so you won't find him out before he catches you completely in his web...of illusion...another good book...
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This is one worth memorizing. It could apply to EITHER a "him" or a "her". It's only human nature to give it a second try -- especially if there are children involved, but you will only be hurt worse (financially and emotionally) the second time around -- if you live through it. by bleu.
bleu.
bleu. This is one worth memorizing. It could apply to EITHER a "him" or a "her". It's only human nature to give it a second try -- especially if there are children involved, but you will only be hurt worse (financially and emotionally) the second time around -- if you live through it.
Love and the Like
There's some sort of deception going on around you that you can discern by listening to and trusting your intuition. Rather than being goal oriented, this is a time for indulging your curiosity in open-ended exploration. Pay close attention to signs and omens that suggest you are getting messages from your deceased loved ones. It is important that you remain emotionally and mentally flexible for the next few days, as events will require you to by tidebuyreviews
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tidebuyreviews There's some sort of deception going on around you that you can discern by listening to and trusting your intuition. Rather than being goal oriented, this is a time for indulging your curiosity in open-ended exploration. Pay close attention to signs and omens that suggest you are getting messages from your deceased loved ones. It is important that you remain emotionally and mentally flexible for the next few days, as events will require you to
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Don't expect anything less then what you deserve, as long as you can give it back in return ❥ by AubergineDreams
AubergineDreams
AubergineDreams Don't expect anything less then what you deserve, as long as you can give it back in return ❥
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So true..Because in every relationship there comes a point when the damage is too much and no matter how good it once was, the memories can’t sustain you. You have to save yourself knowing all the while it hurt like hell. because you can’t keep giving someone everything if you get nothing in return. by keisha
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keisha So true..Because in every relationship there comes a point when the damage is too much and no matter how good it once was, the memories can’t sustain you. You have to save yourself knowing all the while it hurt like hell. because you can’t keep giving someone everything if you get nothing in return.
Random Stuff
Their relationship in a nutshell by cherry
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cherry Their relationship in a nutshell
The Look
Fandom: The Doctor and Donna #basically their whole relationship in a nutshell by cherry
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cherry Fandom: The Doctor and Donna #basically their whole relationship in a nutshell
The Look
Simple Formula For Living: Live beneath your means. Return everything you borrow. Stop blaming other people. Admit it when you make a mistake. Give clothes not worn to charity. Do something nice and try not to get caught. Listen more; talk less. Every day take a 30 min. walk. Strive for excellence, not perfection. Be on time. Don't make excuses. Don't argue. Get organized. Be kind to unkind people. Let someone cut ahead of you in line. Take time by Ms.B
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Ms.B Simple Formula For Living: Live beneath your means. Return everything you borrow. Stop blaming other people. Admit it when you make a mistake. Give clothes not worn to charity. Do something nice and try not to get caught. Listen more; talk less. Every day take a 30 min. walk. Strive for excellence, not perfection. Be on time. Don't make excuses. Don't argue. Get organized. Be kind to unkind people. Let someone cut ahead of you in line. Take time
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If you are a person who gives away love and does not receive it in return, you need to know about the Love Cycle. Giving love and not receiving it in return will give you that drained or empty feeling. This void feeling leads to anxiety. Loving yourself can fill this void, some people cannot love themselves and suffer anxiety. If you cannot love yourself then love your brain first then you will love yourself and love life. Then no more void, love solves everything. cheers Paul Ianni by betsy
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betsy If you are a person who gives away love and does not receive it in return, you need to know about the Love Cycle. Giving love and not receiving it in return will give you that drained or empty feeling. This void feeling leads to anxiety. Loving yourself can fill this void, some people cannot love themselves and suffer anxiety. If you cannot love yourself then love your brain first then you will love yourself and love life. Then no more void, love solves everything. cheers Paul Ianni
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Our relationships are mirrors of ourselves. If we are emotionally, mentally, or spiritually unhealthy, our relationships become reflections of our wounds. Our partners reflect how we honestly feel about ourselves. If we don't respect and honor ME, neither will our partners. If we don't feel whole within ourselves, we will find a mate to fill the holes in us - hello codependency! by lorene
lorene
lorene Our relationships are mirrors of ourselves. If we are emotionally, mentally, or spiritually unhealthy, our relationships become reflections of our wounds. Our partners reflect how we honestly feel about ourselves. If we don't respect and honor ME, neither will our partners. If we don't feel whole within ourselves, we will find a mate to fill the holes in us - hello codependency!
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"When you love someone, you take it as a whole, with all their baggage, all its obligations. You take his history, his past and his present. You take everything, or nothing." by kathy
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kathy "When you love someone, you take it as a whole, with all their baggage, all its obligations. You take his history, his past and his present. You take everything, or nothing."
Words to remember
Edible Finger Paint- You have to find enough patience to clean up the mess though....Give them a canvas and then hang it up in their room! by penelope
penelope
penelope Edible Finger Paint- You have to find enough patience to clean up the mess though....Give them a canvas and then hang it up in their room!
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A government big enough to give you everything you want, is strong enough to take everything you have. - Thomas Jefferson by MyLittleCornerOfTheWorld
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MyLittleCornerOfTheWorld A government big enough to give you everything you want, is strong enough to take everything you have. - Thomas Jefferson
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It really is :/ They say that waking up is a painful process. Your whole world as you know it is shattered. Everything you've ever learned, experienced and seen on TV, you question because nothing is as it seems. But despite that, it's worth it. Being one is awakened is a glorious thing. A thing that can change your world view in positive ways that may contribute to the betterment of society. Don't be a sheep, because then you're just being by proteamundi
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proteamundi It really is :/ They say that waking up is a painful process. Your whole world as you know it is shattered. Everything you've ever learned, experienced and seen on TV, you question because nothing is as it seems. But despite that, it's worth it. Being one is awakened is a glorious thing. A thing that can change your world view in positive ways that may contribute to the betterment of society. Don't be a sheep, because then you're just being
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... Love it. or leave. I am worth more than you can imagine. I have a LOT of love to give and if you don't appreciate me and take me as I am ... there is the door. I will not be abused emotionally or will I ever allow a man who is my husband to treat me like a sidewalk and walk all over me and tell me how to be , how to act, what to think , what to wear, and instill and degrade me to any level beyond being AMAZING, LOVED , RESPECTED AND CARED by Dee-Lanya
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Dee-Lanya ... Love it. or leave. I am worth more than you can imagine. I have a LOT of love to give and if you don't appreciate me and take me as I am ... there is the door. I will not be abused emotionally or will I ever allow a man who is my husband to treat me like a sidewalk and walk all over me and tell me how to be , how to act, what to think , what to wear, and instill and degrade me to any level beyond being AMAZING, LOVED , RESPECTED AND CARED
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Repairing a Cast Iron Skillet  Here is another trick if you have some time… and it will help you season your pan faster, and with less scrubbing.  Get some rock salt, the really coarse kind. Lightly scrub your skillet, then dry it. Put it over a medium heat and pour the rock salt into the pan so you have like, an inch on the bottom. Once it is heated up, you can toss it in a hot oven. Every 20 minutes or so, you take out your pan, give the salt by diane.smith
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diane.smith Repairing a Cast Iron Skillet Here is another trick if you have some time… and it will help you season your pan faster, and with less scrubbing. Get some rock salt, the really coarse kind. Lightly scrub your skillet, then dry it. Put it over a medium heat and pour the rock salt into the pan so you have like, an inch on the bottom. Once it is heated up, you can toss it in a hot oven. Every 20 minutes or so, you take out your pan, give the salt
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This prayer for your child's health is a powerful plea for their protection physically, mentally and spiritually. by della
della
della This prayer for your child's health is a powerful plea for their protection physically, mentally and spiritually.
all the world
These bible verses will help to prepare you mentally and spiritually for the birth of your baby. by della
della
della These bible verses will help to prepare you mentally and spiritually for the birth of your baby.
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I am not a victim of anything. I will stand behind everything I have ever done. Plain & Simple! I'm proud of who I am, big enough to stay out of a situation that I do not have a part in and smart enough to smile and look the other way even when they want me to be included! NO reaction!!! Let the curiosity and assumption take your place! Living my life and being happy is the key! ✌ by AubergineDreams
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AubergineDreams I am not a victim of anything. I will stand behind everything I have ever done. Plain & Simple! I'm proud of who I am, big enough to stay out of a situation that I do not have a part in and smart enough to smile and look the other way even when they want me to be included! NO reaction!!! Let the curiosity and assumption take your place! Living my life and being happy is the key! ✌
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THIS IS WORTH KEEPING AND READING FREQUENTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Written by a 90 Year Old..... This is something we should all read at least once a week!!!!! Make sure you read to the end!!!!!! Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio . "To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more: 1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. 4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch. 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it. 9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 12. It's OK to let your children see you cry. 13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks. 16. Take a deep breath It calms the mind. 17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. 18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. 19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 22. Over prepare, then go with the flow. 23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 24. The most important sex organ is the brain. 25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you. 26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words :'In five years, will this matter?' 27. Always choose life.. 28. Forgive everyone everything. 29. What other people think of you is none of your business. 30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time. 31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 33. Believe in miracles. 34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. 35. Don't audit life.. Show up and make the most of it now. 36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. 37. Your children get only one childhood. 38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. 39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. 42. The best is yet to come... 43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 44. Yield. 45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift." by eluthrea
eluthrea
eluthrea THIS IS WORTH KEEPING AND READING FREQUENTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Written by a 90 Year Old..... This is something we should all read at least once a week!!!!! Make sure you read to the end!!!!!! Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio . "To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more: 1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.. 2. When in doubt, just take the next small step. 3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. 4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch. 5. Pay off your credit cards every month. 6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone. 8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it. 9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck. 10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile. 11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present. 12. It's OK to let your children see you cry. 13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it. 15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks. 16. Take a deep breath It calms the mind. 17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful. 18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger. 19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else. 20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer. 21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special. 22. Over prepare, then go with the flow. 23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple. 24. The most important sex organ is the brain. 25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you. 26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words :'In five years, will this matter?' 27. Always choose life.. 28. Forgive everyone everything. 29. What other people think of you is none of your business. 30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time. 31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change. 32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does. 33. Believe in miracles. 34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do. 35. Don't audit life.. Show up and make the most of it now. 36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young. 37. Your children get only one childhood. 38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved. 39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere. 40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back. 41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need. 42. The best is yet to come... 43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. 44. Yield. 45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."
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Its not love until you are willing to give everything and expect nothing in return. Here's what I learned in my marriage by amandawest
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amandawest Its not love until you are willing to give everything and expect nothing in return. Here's what I learned in my marriage
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Dear Beloved God in Heaven  Please give us a president that loves this country and everything it stands for.  Please give us a president who respects you as the one true God.  Please give us a president who will, with your help, restore this nation to its former glory, the way you created her.  Please help us to respect what you have given to us and not take anything for granted ever again.  Please God weaken the evil and strengthen the good both without and within.  May our eyes be opened. by leticia
leticia
leticia Dear Beloved God in Heaven Please give us a president that loves this country and everything it stands for. Please give us a president who respects you as the one true God. Please give us a president who will, with your help, restore this nation to its former glory, the way you created her. Please help us to respect what you have given to us and not take anything for granted ever again. Please God weaken the evil and strengthen the good both without and within. May our eyes be opened.
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"You will find that people will always have opinions about your decisions. Don’t take it personally, it’s simply because they're not courageous enough to take action in their own lives. Be a leader in your life and pay no mind to those who lack the courage to do the same in theirs." - #stevemaraboli #quote by AislingH
AislingH
AislingH "You will find that people will always have opinions about your decisions. Don’t take it personally, it’s simply because they're not courageous enough to take action in their own lives. Be a leader in your life and pay no mind to those who lack the courage to do the same in theirs." - #stevemaraboli #quote
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If you dread opening your dresser drawers every day, then here is the post for you. It will give you the motivation to get your bedroom and everything in it more organized. How to Organize Your Dresser Drawers by herminia
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herminia If you dread opening your dresser drawers every day, then here is the post for you. It will give you the motivation to get your bedroom and everything in it more organized. How to Organize Your Dresser Drawers
Interesting Photography
When trust is broken, sorry means nothing. - Meaning of Photo: Sorry will not heal a broken heart. Trust is essential to any relationship and once the trust is broken, everything else is broken. Sorry cannot help fix the trust, you just have to be loyal and trustworthy. Then you wouldn't have to say sorry. by nanette
nanette
nanette When trust is broken, sorry means nothing. - Meaning of Photo: Sorry will not heal a broken heart. Trust is essential to any relationship and once the trust is broken, everything else is broken. Sorry cannot help fix the trust, you just have to be loyal and trustworthy. Then you wouldn't have to say sorry.
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A malignant narcissist enjoys degrading and humiliating others, including their own children. They need to lower everyone around them in order to elevate themselves so that they feel superior. It leaves you feeling empty, robs you of your self esteem, and makes you question everything about who you thought you were. by anne
anne
anne A malignant narcissist enjoys degrading and humiliating others, including their own children. They need to lower everyone around them in order to elevate themselves so that they feel superior. It leaves you feeling empty, robs you of your self esteem, and makes you question everything about who you thought you were.
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