I love this movie, but this quote isn't true. You may not be able to choose who you are attracted to, but you CAN control your actions. Being an adult means doing the right thing, even when it is hard.
The Fray - Over my Head. Sometimes nobody knows, but in some of the best things in life, I'm in way over my head. That's perfectly fine though, how else does one improve? After all, Michael Jordan never backed down from no challenge.