"It is your reaction to adversity, not the adversity itself, that determines how your life’s story will develop." Dieter F. Uchtdorf to the Young Women. LDS General Conference. Free LDS Printables.
When you continually fill yourself up with love, joy, happiness, trust, respect, self-esteem you will have more to give of yourself. What you might find is that you no longer give to those that don't resonate with you anymore. It's all part of your Journey! Embrace it