Ladies, the man that you lust over is not God's plan for your life. A godly man will not lust over you, but he will pursue you. Let God work on you spiritually and emotionally. God will send him when you're ready, not lonely.
“The artist’s life cannot be otherwise than full of conflicts, for two forces are at war within him [or her]—on the one hand, the common human longing for happiness, satisfaction and security in life, and on the other a ruthless passion for creation which may go so far as to override every personal desire … There are hardly any exceptions to the rule that a person must pay dearly for the divine gift of creative fire.” Carl Jung